Now..let me tell you all the good things that have been happening..Yes..besides all the stupid childish things..there are some good things too..lol..lol..
For Valentine's Day...hubby gave me this big beautiful heart balloon...with some candy and a pink rose...it was wonderful...I also gave him his valentine candy..and I finally bought them sexy undies..yeah......lol...He seemed to like them...lol...bad SammyJo..shouldn't hang out the laundry for others to see lol lol...
Now..let me tell ya about yesterday..Sunday...I got my lazy butt out of bed and even my middle son got up and came to church with me in the morning...Mass was great..I love the priest that was there...He is so different from the others..he tells it like it is...At one point of the sermon..he just out of the blue turned toward me..which I'm standing right on the side of him at the time..I am doing sign language for the hearing impaired..and he asked this question..which was funny...and I just couldn't help but laugh...totally threw me off...Here I am supposed to be interpreting what he says to the deaf and he just stops me in my tracks...you've got to love him..
This Sunday's gospel and sermon were meant for me..God was speaking loud and clear to me...It was about Forgiveness....How it is easy to forgive someone you love...but the greater reward is being able to forgive someone you don't like..to be able to pray for someone who has hurt you...well that is something very hard to do..but..shows a true heart...No..it may not have said it in those exact words...I am putting it in my own words how I perceive it....God was telling me..now SammyJo..you know you have to forgive....Ok God..I am trying..it will take some time...Just stand by me Lord and help me through ok...
Yes...it was a beautiful day..Church..and the sun was shining so bright and yes indeed it was actually a little warmer..yeahhhhhh.....
My eldest came home yesterday also..was supposed to come in the evening..but..with everything going on..and we had plans to go bowling with some friends later in the day..so he took off work and came home from school earlier...Of course..I had to lecture a little..but I didn't go on and on..
We finally got on the road to our bowling date..it was a few hours later than we all expected..Our friends had a few things to deal with first..but we all got on our way...My eldest wanted us to ride with him in his truck..well..I love to drive..and I was a little worried..lol...but I must say he drove very good...I guess he learn his lesson with that little speeding ticket he got about a month ago...lol...Well while on our way there..my son got a phone call from you know who..yeap..the girlfriend...she knew of us going bowling and the time..but..she didn't know we got delayed..so she would have thought that we were already there bowling...well I felt she just wanted to ruin his and our day..she told him.."I have some bad news for you..do you want to hear it now or later?" well he told her later..but..I knew..it would eat at him..I told him what she is breaking up with you?? or did you get fired from your job??...he felt that no she was not breaking up with him..so he went on ahead and called her and told her to tell him..and yes...from what she says..he don't have a job at that stupid little chicken place anymore...
I find it so strange that all this would happen after all the things that has been happening...He and her the girlfriend's cousin both wanted yesterday off...and the boss wouldn't let them both off because of only one person to take their place..she told them to decided among themselves..well the other guy..the cousin..came up with an idea..to call the girlfriend...which also works there..she was off this weekend..and she could come in and take one of their places..that way they both had someone there taking their places...but..then she calls him and tells him that the lady who runs the place said that if he wants weekends off..he can have them all off from now on..but..it was not said about the other guy...hummmm...wonder why???..could it be because he is the cousin of that witch the girlfriend...??..I just know she had something to do with it...she is the one who got him that job in the first place..
My son had already told me that he was thinking of looking for another job elsewhere..because he as well as us..felt it was not much in the way of what he was going to college for anyway..but..the idea of how they did it..well..that is plain shitty...You know..I want to go over there and give that woman a piece of my mind..but I am not..he told me he will handle it...and even if they decided they want to let him stay..he will not...I am glad...that is more less time spent with the girlfriend...I felt she took joy in telling him that..She feels that he takes my side..and I feel she is getting even with him..and was jealous of him spending time with us yesterday...If she wouldn't be such a witch..then she could have been there with us...but..all bets are off now...
But..let me tell you...I took his phone..and I turned it off and put it in my purse..he was like hey..I told him no more interruptions today...let them all wallow in themselves..we are not going to let anyone ruin our day together...and that was that...
And let me tell ya..Hubby..and my 3 sons and our friends had a blast...we just bowled for like 3 to 4 hours and just laughed and clowned around...It was the best..no phone calls no thinking about any problems..just totally fun...
It had been so long since I bowled..but I did pretty good..I actually won the second go round...but I tell you what...my old bones surely do hurt this morning..lol..and all my guys are still sleeping at this moment..the time is 11:30 am..them lazy dudes..lol...but hey..such quiet time for me.....yeahhhhhhhh..
I've got a birthday cake to order and presents to buy..my youngest is turning 6 on
Wednesday..I can't believe it...
You..know what..even with this crazy stuff going on with the girlfriend..My life is still so happy..I love my family so much...and I am so thankful to have them...I know it sounds as though I am always complaining..but hey..like I said before..better to do the jest of it here and keep some sort of balance in the real life...
Ok ..love ya all..and have a wonderful day..because the Lord has given us a glorious day....
SammyJo........
